Rediscovering Prayer

by Addison Bevere

Separator Words with God by Addison Bevere
How Many Times Should You Pray?

“Pray again,” he said.

“Why?” the boy asked. “If something needs to be done, I shouldn’t have to ask twice . . . at least that’s what my mom tells me.”

I was chatting with a friend a few weeks ago, and he asked a question that all of us have probably asked at some point: “When do I stop asking God for something in prayer? And is there some kind of mark I need to hit for my prayer to be heard?”

A lot of people stop praying because they’re convinced God doesn’t hear them. And even if he did hear them, it seems like God didn’t care enough to respond, so what’s the point of prayer. (I’ve certainly been one of those people.)

Of course, prayer is more than asking God for something, a truth we tackle from different angles through these prayer guides, but bringing our requests to the Father is an inescapable part of prayer.

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In 1 Kings chapters 17–18, we find three moments when Elijah brings radical requests to God. The first involves a dying boy, the second features fire from heaven, and the third results in torrential rain.

Same man. Same prayer life. Same God. But each time his number of petitions looks different—three prayers in 17:21, one prayer in 18:37, and seven prayers in 18:43. So why the inconsistency? 

Response

For this week’s challenge, I invite you to read 1 Kings 17–18. See if you can discern reasons for the differences and delays across these three occasions. What stands out to me, from this passage and others, is that God wants us to pray until we receive what we’re asking for, or we sense a release from him.

Closing Thoughts

The gap between our request and God’s response is the place where the Spirit hovers over our life, forming faith, hope, trust in us.  

There are many times when we don’t know how to pray as we should, so we’re tempted to just not pray. But don’t make this about performance. No one’s grading your prayers, and God doesn’t need your prayers to be perfect. 

When bringing a request to God, we can pray (imperfectly) until we either receive our request or sense a release from the Spirit. The release could come after a single prayer or multiple times of prayer—it’s essentially God saying, “My child, let go of this one. Trust me and rest in my faithfulness.”

Praying with you,

Addison

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Separator Words with God by Addison Bevere

The Invitation

At the beginning of most weeks, I share a short prayer guide, offering words and practices that will help you see, hear, and experience more of God in your daily life. I’d love for you to join us.

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The Entries

The Essential Attribute for Spiritual Health

I want to challenge you to spend some time this week praying through Luke 15. As you read about the sheep, the coins, the sons, place yourself in these stories. You’ll see that Jesus tells of a costly joy—one that comes with forgiveness and repentance, seeking and finding, tears and confusion. A joy that, in this broken world, can feel easy to lose . . . yet something inside us knows it’s always worth finding again.

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What Miracle Are You Missing?

In this Christmas season, let’s be those who live with active patience, lifting our eyes and steadying our hearts so we can be faithful with our hands. Through grace we can see every mundane responsibility, such as the upkeep of a stable, as meaningful to the purposes of God.

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Addison Bevere is the COO of Messenger International, a ministry founded by John and Lisa Bevere in 1990 that exists to develop uncompromising followers of Christ who transform our world. Messenger is dedicated to providing people with access to life-transforming messages regardless of their location, language, or financial position.

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Addison Bevere

Husband, father, author, poet, speaker & follower of Christ

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