Rediscovering Prayer

by Addison Bevere

Separator Words with God by Addison Bevere
When you’re tired of waiting on God…

God never hurries. There are no deadlines against he must work.
Only to know this is to quiet our spirits and relax our nerves.

—A.W. Tozer

Do you ever get frustrated that things aren’t moving as quickly as you prayed for? Or maybe you’re wrestling with that familiar ache of disappointment, wondering why things just aren’t happening in or for you.

In Luke 13:6–9, Jesus tells a parable of a man who planted a fig tree in his vineyard. For three years, he came looking for fruit but found none. Frustrated, the man said to the vinedresser, “Cut it down. Why should it use up the ground?”

But the vinedresser says, “Sir, let it alone this year also, until I dig around it and put on manure. Then if it should bear fruit next year, well and good; but if not, you can cut it down.”

When we read this parable, I think we’re tempted to believe God is the man who grew impatient. But he’s not. He is the vinedresser—the one who intercedes, who patiently tends to the barren places of our lives. He’s the one who says, “Let it alone.” That phase in Greek is the same one Jesus used on the Cross when he asked the Father to forgive us.

When we grow impatient, God offers grace. When we’re ready to give up, God suggests a bit more time. He doesn’t rush the process. He knows that sometimes it takes digging up the soil of our hearts, working in the mess and manure, to bring forth fruit.

The manure—the hardships, the disappointments, the setbacks—they’re not wasted. They’re the very things God uses to nurture growth. It’s in those dark, difficult places that roots go deeper and the life of fruit is formed.

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This week, when you feel the sting of delay or the ache of unmet expectations, when you’re tempted to cut down the tree, remind yourself that the Vinedresser is still at work. He’s still digging, still tending, still waiting.

 

Closing Prayer

My friend, breathe in His patience, receive His grace, and let’s pray these words together,

Father, thank You for Your patience with me.
Help me to trust Your timing,
to see Your hand in the manure and the mess,
to believe that even when I can’t see the fruit,
You are still tending, still cultivating, still bringing forth life.
Amen.

Praying with you,

Addison

 

 

 

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The Invitation

At the beginning of most weeks, I share a short prayer guide, offering words and practices that will help you see, hear, and experience more of God in your daily life. I’d love for you to join us.

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Addison Bevere is the COO of Messenger International, a ministry founded by John and Lisa Bevere in 1990 that exists to develop uncompromising followers of Christ who transform our world. Messenger is dedicated to providing people with access to life-transforming messages regardless of their location, language, or financial position.

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Addison Bevere

Husband, father, author, poet, speaker & follower of Christ

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